从人类婚姻家庭发展史阶段看,门巴族主流婚姻和家庭形式是一夫一妻制。这也是本族婚姻的主导地位,当一对青年通过在劳动社交中产生感情,告知父母一般会同意儿女的这种选择,而且在门隅,父母对儿女的这种选择很尊重,其过程如下: 当男方家要娶回新娘时,男方家派聪明伶俐能说会道的两男一女去女方家迎亲,此时会强制性的把新娘引回 Judging from the stage of the development of human marriage and family, the mainstream marriage and family form of Monba are monogamous. This is also the dominance of the ethnic marriages. When a group of young people express their sentiments through labor socialization, they inform parents that they generally agree with this choice of children, and that parents’ preference for their children is well respected in the neighborhood. The process is as follows : When the man’s family want to marry back to the bride, the man’s house sent clever and clever can talk to the two men and a woman to the woman’s home to meet their relatives, this time will be the mandatory introduction of the bride