记得小时候,“吃饭!写作业!”是家长最多的指令,却很少问我们:“今天开心吗?”我们是时代的产物,后遗症就是懂得克制隐忍,却不擅长大胆表露心声。但是,这种忽略表达的教育方式,好吗?我一个亲戚的女儿,从小学习优秀,酷爱读书。后来,她拿到全额奖学金到国外读书。出国后,她发现自己只是会读书,完全不会跟人相处,很苦恼。她发现最受欢迎的同学不是学习最好的,往往是乐观开朗、健谈幽默、有组织能力、 I remember when I was a child, “eating! Homework! ” Is the parent’s most directives, but seldom ask us: “happy today?” We are the product of the times, the aftermath is to understand restraint forbear, but not good at boldly revealing their voices . However, this neglected expression of education, okay? I am a relative daughter, grew up excellent, love reading. Later, she got a full scholarship to study abroad. After going abroad, she found herself just reading a book, totally not getting along with others and was distressed. She found that the most popular classmates are not the best at learning, often optimistic, talkative, organized,