我认为自己是一个成功者,是因为我非常愿意去帮助别人我认为自己是个成功的人现在的中国进入了家庭教育非常复杂的时代,社会上有标准,每个家庭亦各有自己的标准,而且,这些标准有可能是错误的。比如说,孩子一定要在班里进前5名;只要能考上北大、清华就算成功,到哈佛、耶鲁就更加成功,在我看来,都是些错误的标准。为什么错误,因为它最后变成了家庭的惟一标准。而孩子的成长有很多标准,比如说人品是否高洁,个 I consider myself a successful person because I am very willing to help others. I consider myself a successful person. Now that China has entered a very complex era of family education, there are standards in society, and each family has its own standard. Moreover, these standards may be wrong. For example, children must be in the top five in the class; as long as they can pass the Peking University, Tsinghua University, even if it succeeds, to Harvard, Yale is even more successful, in my opinion, all the wrong standards. Why is it wrong, because it turns out to be the only standard for the family? The child’s growth has many criteria, such as whether the character is noble, a