在美国生活多年,我很有兴趣观察中美文化观念的差异,尤其自己身为家长,又从事少儿工作,更有机会搜集有关子女教育的众多故事。有这样一个真实的故事:一个华人家庭有两个儿子。老大从小本份老成,但天资平平,学习成绩一般,家长投资培养其才艺也不见大起色,使爹妈失望。小儿子却聪明过人,灵气十足, Having spent many years in the United States, I am very interested in observing the differences in cultural concepts between China and the United States. I especially myself as a parent, I also work with children and have more opportunities to collect numerous stories about their children’s education. There is such a real story: a Chinese family has two sons. Boss boss since the age of the old, but talented people, academic performance in general, parents invest in cultivating their talents also see no big improvement, disappointed father and mother. The younger son is clever, reiki,