她是我身边难得的理科女性,做事干脆、直接、果断,从不向我倾诉自己的情感纠结,永远开朗、豁达、直视世界。直到有一天我实在按捺不住,万分好奇地问她:“你真的从不纠结?”于是,我第一次听她讲述了自己的经历。我和老公都是情感上比较迟钝的理科生,一起走过从大学到现在的十四年。十四年里,我在美国工作两年,周游世界两年,独自在上海做项目三年,两地分居的时间总共有七年,中间经历了若干次考验。在美国的时候,我们还没结婚,为了 She is a rare science woman around me, doing things simply, directly, decisively, never talk to me about their emotional tangle, always cheerful, open-minded, looking at the world. Until one day I really could not hold back, very curious to ask her: “You really never tangled? ” So, for the first time I listen to her about their own experiences. My husband and I are emotionally slow science students, walked together from college to now fourteen years. In the fourteen years, I worked in the United States for two years, traveling around the world for two years and doing my own project in Shanghai for three years alone. I spent a total of seven years in separation between the two places with several tests in between. In the United States, we have not married, in order