我接触过许多家长,有的教育方法很简单,斥责甚至打骂孩子之后还伤心地对我说:“老师,我还不是”恨铁不成钢吗!“为什么我们有些家长在工作中能对别人做耐心的思想工作,而对自己的孩子却用简单粗暴的办法呢?并不是这些家长就没有做思想工作的能力,而正因为是自己的孩子,就可以在”恨铁不成钢“的思想指导下感情用事。为什么”恨铁不成钢“却会产生这种后果呢? I have met many parents. Some education methods are very simple. After scolding and even scolding children, I sadly said to me: ”Teacher, I’m not yet.“ Why do we have some parents at work? Being able to do patient mental work for others while using simple and rude methods for their children? It is not that these parents do not have the ability to do ideological work. It is because of their own children that they can not ” Steel “under the guidance of the feelings of the things. Why ” iron does not steel "will have this consequence?