失控期(18岁以前)男人对性事的关注是从青春期到来后开始的。身体的某个部位在冬眠多年以后,终于无法阻止地复苏了。痛苦的是,无论什么时间什么地点,它都可能突然勃起。这种情况甚至发生在衣衫单薄的夏天,被老师喊到讲台上面向同学们背课文的时刻。它似乎越来越难以驾驭了。有些男孩子学生时代光芒四射,进入社会则更显成功,其中很重要的原因就是他们恰当地控制了自己的本能。但这谈何容易!随着发育的日益健全,他会时常幻想一个异性和自己亲热,她是谁和漂亮与否的问题倒在其次。 Out of control (before the age of 18) Men’s concerns about sexuality begin after adolescence. Some part of the body after hibernation for many years, finally unable to stop the recovery. The pain is that no matter what time and place, it may suddenly erection. This situation even occurred in the summer of thin clothes, the teacher shouted to the podium for students to back the text of the moment. It seems more and more difficult to control. Some boys are glittering in their student days and more successful in society. One of the important reasons is that they have properly controlled their own instincts. But it’s easier said than done! With growing health, he often fantasizes about heterosexuality and intimacy, who she is, and whether she is beautiful or not.