诸葛亮是三国蜀汉政治家、军事家。他治国有术,治家也有方。他在《与兄瑾书》中写到:“瞻今八岁,聪慧可爱,嫌其早成,恐不为重器耳”。其意为,瞻儿今年已经八岁,长得聪慧可爱,只是嫌他成熟过早,恐怕不能成为大器。诸葛亮对自己的儿子做出了全面、正确的评价,一方面为儿子长得聪慧可爱感到由衷的高兴,一方面又为儿子成不了大器而隐隐担忧。这封家书虽不长,但疼爱子女、关心子女成长的拳拳之心跃然纸上。 Zhuge Liang is a Shu Han politician and military strategist in the Three Kingdoms. He ruled over the country and ruled the country. He wrote in the book “with brotherhood:” looking forward to eight years old, bright and lovely, too early to judge, not afraid of heavy ears. " Its meaning, looking forward to children this year has been eight years old, looks bright and lovely, just think he is too mature, I am afraid can not become a big device. Zhuge Liang made a comprehensive and correct assessment of his son. On the one hand, he was very glad to see his son was bright and lovely. On the other hand, he became a faint concern for his son as a son. Although this book is not a long book, but love their children, concerned about the growth of children’s boxing heart suddenly on the paper.