每个孩子都免不了会犯这样那样的错误。孩子正是在不断纠正错误的过程中成长起来的, 特别是那些还在上学的孩子更是如此。重要的问题不是孩子是否犯错误,而是父母采取何种态度。父母对待孩子的错误所采取的态度,恰如一把犁刀的两面: 它可以伤害孩子的心,留下永恒的伤疤,也可以从中“激发或掘出生命的新水源”。对此,我国许多心理学家把父母亲责备孩子的伤害语言归纳为如下几种: Every child will inevitably make such a mistake. It is in the process of correcting mistakes that children are growing up, especially those children who are still at school. The important question is not whether the child made a mistake, but what the attitude of the parents. The attitude parents take toward children’s mistakes is just like the two sides of a coulter: it can hurt the child’s heart and leave eternal scars, and it can also “inspire or excavate new sources of life.” In this regard, many psychologists in our country summed up the language of harm to parents blamed the children as follows: