生活中常常会遇到许多不愉快的事,有些比较严重就会对人的心理和情绪产生消极的影响,心理学上称为应激生活事件,如失恋、离婚、婆媳不和、父母对子女缺乏爱等。每当遇到这些应激事件,常常给当事人双方带来无尽的烦恼。然而,中和心理可能解除这种烦恼,使你从迷津中重新走出来。 有一位年轻姑娘来信询问:由于父母经常吵架,在幼时对其关怀不够,感到自己十分需要父母的爱,有情感上爱的渴望感,因而对父母有些怨恨;我就告诉她,多想 Often encounter many unpleasant things in life, some more serious will have a negative impact on human psychology and emotions, psychologically known as stressful life events, such as romance, divorce, law-abusing, parents lack of children Love and so on. Whenever you encounter these stressful events, you often bring endless trouble to both parties. However, neutralizing the mind may relieve this annoyance and make you re-emerge from maze. A young girl wrote a letter asking her: "Because parents often quarrel with their children and feel inadequately cared for when they are young, they feel they are in need of parental love and have a sense of desire for love and therefore have some resentment against their parents. I told her how much