上级在指示下级时常说“要提得起,放得下”;教师在教导学生时常说“要提得起,放得下”;长辈在教育下辈时常说“要提得起,放得下”。提起需要力量和恒心,放下需要勇气和智慧,提起不容易放下更难。《放下的智慧》这本书阐述了人应当具备像儒家、道家、佛家所教导的“孝德为本”的人格, Higher level in the instructions of the subordinate often say “to be worth mentioning, let go ”; teachers often teach students to say “to mention, let go ”; elders in education often say From, let go “. Need to lift strength and perseverance, put down need courage and wisdom, not easy to put down more difficult. The Book of Wisdom to Lay Down states that one should have a personality like Confucianism, Taoism, and Buddhism taught by ”filial piety"