人类常常会犯自以为是的错误,尤其在对待小孩子的问题上。究其原因,世界之大,每个人遇到的事物不同,表现的机会不同,但绝大多数人还是要做父亲或母亲的。于是,我们在各自的孩子面前搭建起各自的舞台表演自己,并且在表演中不断地塑造孩子甚或被孩子反塑造。 所幸我们都是从小孩子长起来的,还可以从自己的童年中找些模糊的经验教训来校正 Humans often make self-righteous mistakes, especially when dealing with children. The reason is that the world is big. Everyone has different things and different opportunities for performance, but the vast majority still have to be fathers or mothers. Thus, we built our own stage performances in front of our children, and we continued to model children in our performances and even counteract the children’s creation. Fortunately, we all grew up with children. We can also find some vague lessons and corrections from our childhood.