在与人交谈时，一般情况下首先要称呼别人，这就要有一个能让对方接受的恰当的称呼，因为，这是启开交谈之门的一把钥匙。可是，在现实生活里，我们有一些同志却忽视了这一点，这些同志尽管出发点是好的，但由于一开口称呼别人就不得体，无意识地伤害了对方，导致交谈失败的结 In conversations with people, you are usually the first to address someone else, and you have to have a proper title for the other person to accept because that is the key to opening the door to conversation. However, in real life, some of our comrades have neglected this point. Although these comrades have a good starting point, they can not help themselves by opening their mouth and hurting each other unconsciously, resulting in the conclusion of a failed conversation