其实,人群中攀比心理很常见,心智源教育发展研究中心心理咨询师刘中良认为,当孩子提出要求,家长不要大惊小怪,先耐心听听他们到底想什么。孩子天真幼稚的天性为攀比提供了心理基础。由于不太了解人的需要和满足是要受一定条件制约的,有好奇心的孩子往往比照模仿对象提出各种要求,比如,别人有了漂亮的书包、笔盒、衣服、玩具,他(她)也想要。“我还 In fact, the crowd comparisons psychology is very common, psychological source education development research center counselor Liu Zhongliang that when the children make the request, parents do not make a fuss, the first to listen to what they want in the end. The innocent childish nature of the child provides the psychological basis for the comparisons. Because less understanding of human needs and satisfaction is subject to certain conditions, curious children tend to imitate the object put forward various requirements, for example, others have a beautiful schoolbag, pencil case, clothes, toys, he (she ) Also want. ”I still