我退休后为了发挥余热,主动提出和儿子一起住,以便照顾自己的小孙子。谁知道,和儿子住在一起时间不到一年,我的血压一个劲地往上升,还经常头痛、失眠。最近我咨询了专家,才知道造成自己血压升高的“元凶”可能是自己的性格缺陷呢。我性格比较内向,原来和老伴在一起的时候,因为彼此非常熟悉,心里有了什么想法还能交流交流;可是和儿子、儿媳住在一起后,有时候对生活中的一些小事,我有自己的想法,很 In my spare time after retirement, I proposed to live with my son to take care of my own grandson. Who knows, living with his son for less than a year, my blood pressure to go up, but also often headache, insomnia. Recently I consulted the experts, I realized that their own blood pressure caused “culprit ” may be their own personality defects it. My personality is more introverted, I was with my wife, because I am very familiar with each other, and I have thoughts and ideas about how I can communicate with each other. But after living with my son and daughter-in-law, sometimes I have myself The idea, yes