越是内向胆小、不合群的孩子,家长越要鼓励孩子多参加一些集体活动。相信有很多家长都经历过这样一件事,孩子从学校回来,向家长哭诉或者抱怨,自己在学校或社团里受到排挤,没人愿意跟自己玩儿,大家合起伙儿来欺负自己,等等。有些家长可能会埋怨孩子不合群。还有些家长可能会跟着孩子一起斥责孩子的同学不 The more introverted the timid and out-of-group children, the more parents should encourage their children to participate in some more collective activities. I believe many parents have experienced such a thing. Children come back from school, cry out to parents or complain that they are marginalized in school or community, no one is willing to play with themselves, they are all together to bully themselves, etc. Wait. Some parents may complain that their children are not alienated. Some parents may follow their children together to scold their children’s classmates