你舍得给孩子断奶吗?你舍得送孩子上幼儿园吗?你舍得让孩子吃苦吗?一个人带孩子时,你舍得让孩子自己待一会儿,让自己吃顿饱饭吗?你舍得放下手边的家务,给自己留出10分钟休息时间吗?在育儿路上,我们有太多的事情要思考自己是否舍得了.但想不明白的时候,通常不是没想明白舍什么,而是没想明白会得什么.能舍时,我们会预期未来是光明的;舍不下时,我们的预期往往或者是灰暗的, Are you willing to give your child to kindergarten? Are you willing to let the child endure hardship? When you are a child, do you want to let the children themselves for a while, let yourself eat full meal? You are willing to let go of the housework , Give yourself 10 minutes of rest time? In parenting, we have too many things to think about whether they are willing, but when you do not understand, you usually do not want to understand what you want, but you do not want to understand What we can do when we expect the future to be bright; when we can not afford to do so, our expectations are often either gloomy,