要完全与另一个人发生关联,人必须先跟自己发生关联。如果我们不能拥抱我们自身的孤独,我们就只是利用他人作为对抗孤立的一面挡箭牌而已。只有当人可以活得像只老鹰——不需要任何观众,一个人才能够去关心另一个存在的生长。——欧文·亚隆《当尼采哭泣》我想在大地上画满窗子,让所有习惯黑夜的眼睛,都习惯光明。——顾城《我是一个任性的孩子》我和这个世界不熟。这并非是我撕裂的原因。我依旧 To fully associate with another person, one must first be associated with oneself. If we can not embrace our own loneliness, we just use others as a shield against isolation. Only when one can live as an eagle - without any audience, one can be concerned with the growth of another. - Owen Yalong “When Nietzsche cried,” I want to paint the window on the earth, so that all the habits of the night’s eyes, are used to light. - Gu Cheng “I am a wayward child” I’m unfamiliar with this world. This is not the reason I’m torn. I still