从小,我妈妈就教我要懂得“给予”。在待人接物上,妈妈总说:“蔻儿,你去别人家不能空着手,要有所准备。吃的用的,有心想着给人家送去。啥都没有,就别去串门,不要让人觉得你想沾别人什么。”我一直照做,保持着礼数和周到。结婚后,我发现我先生受到的“给予”教育和我的有些不同。我先生的父母对他说:“给予的前提,是 As a child, my mom taught me to understand ”give “. In dealing with people, the mother always said: ”Kou children, you go to other people’s homes can not be empty hands, have to be prepared. Eat, with the intention to send to others. Gansha, do not go to the door, do not let People think you want to get what others. “” I have been doing, to maintain the etiquette and thoughtful. After getting married, I found out that my education was somewhat different from mine. My husband’s parents said to him: "The premise is given