夫妻若在对子女的教育中,发挥各自优势,互助、互补,共同努力,默契配合,其合力就不只是简单的加法,而是犹如反应堆中的中子与原子核撞击发出的能量。培养一个聪明健康的孩子,就需要这样巨大的“连锁反应”能量。笔者在近年来的心理咨询中发现,中小学生来进行心理咨询时,绝大多数是由母亲陪同来的,而由父亲陪同孩子来咨询的还不到5％。北京市对中小学生家长的一项调查表明,几乎所有的父 If their husband and wife exert their respective advantages, mutual assistance, complementarity, concerted efforts and tacit cooperation in their education of their children, their synergy is not only a simple addition, but also the energy emitted by the collision of neutrons and nuclei in the reactor. To develop a smart and healthy child, we need such a huge “chain reaction” energy. In recent years, I found in psychological counseling that when primary and secondary school students are going to conduct psychological counseling, most of them are accompanied by their mothers, while less than 5% are consulted by their fathers. A survey of primary and secondary school parents in Beijing shows that almost all of the fathers