亲爱的心曲姐姐:您好!我是个初三孩子的母亲,已订《好家长》几年了,从中学到了不少知识,对孩子总是说服教育。我孩子聪明、内秀、爱看课外书,很明事理。可有一事让我束手无策:他学习缺乏自觉性,总敷衍塞责。比如背英语单词吧,他说背熟了,可一抽查就背不出,英语、语文成绩较差。他住校一月才回家一次,我该怎么办?耽误你的宝贵时间,请回复,谢谢!祝《好家长》越办越好!郭掬华 Dear heart song sister: Hello! I am a mother of three children, has been “good parents” a few years, learned a lot of knowledge, always persuade children of education. My child is clever, Neixiu, love to read extra-curricular books, it is quite reasonable. There is something that can do nothing: he learns a lack of consciousness, always perfunctory responsibility. For example, back English words, he said that cooked, but not a back check, English, Chinese poor grades. He lived in school only once a month to go home, what should I do? Delay your valuable time, please reply, thank you! “Good parents” better and better!