Passage 1我一看见顾一凡就闹心。她是个不懂拒绝的人,不管别人拜托什么她都照单全收,每天给自己揽一大堆事情,把自己累得半死不活的。在我看来,她就是个不折不扣的老好人。其实我有些明白顾一凡的心理——她不是不想拒绝,而是不敢拒绝。在“强盗逻辑”盛行的今天,拒绝就等于得罪人,如果没有被喷的心理准备,是轻易不敢 Passage 1 As soon as I saw Gu Yifan, I took a nap. She is a person who does not know how to refuse, no matter what other people ask her to accept all she receives, a lot of things every day to yourself, their own half-dead tired. In my opinion, she is an absolute good old man. In fact, I understand some Gu Guifan some psychology - she did not want to refuse, but can not refuse. In the prevalence of “Bandit Logic ” today, refusing is equal to offended people, if not being psychologically prepared, it is easy to dare