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儿子上小学5年级,成绩在班里排前10名,可他总喜欢和班上倒数几名的差生一起玩,在书本上乱写乱画,搞恶作剧捉弄同学,一到课间就满操场地打闹。我建议他应该多和班里的好孩子接触,他却说那些孩子都没个性。目前儿子的成绩还没受到影响,可我担心长久下去会对他不利,我该怎么做呢?—读者磊磊妈解答一:李玲北京社会心理学学会会员在孩子面前直接批评他喜欢的朋友,只会遭来孩子的反感和叛逆。仅仅靠成绩好坏来划定好孩子和坏孩子是有失偏颇的,在孩子那里也没有说服力。
The son of grade 5 in primary school, the result in the top 10 in the class, but he always like to play with the poor students in the penultimate class, doodle in the book, make mischief teasing classmates, to the classroom full of playground To slapstick. I suggested that he should be more in good hands with the class, he said those children are not personality. The current son’s grades have not been affected, but I worry about long-term will be detrimental to him, how can I do? - Readers Lei Lei answer: Li Ling Beijing Institute of Social Psychology in front of children directly criticize his favorite friend, Will only be the child’s disgust and treason. It is biased to demarcate good children and bad children only by their grades, and there is no persuasion in children.