每个人都有自己的秘密,一个家庭也有它的秘密,如生活秘密,经济秘密等;但家庭中的秘密一般只局限于成年人知道,孩子是不知道的,尤其是中国的孩子。这是不公平的,最起码孩子也应了解一部分家中的秘密,这样孩子会因自己完全成为家中的一员而感到高兴。那么,如何告诉孩子家中的秘密呢?首先要信任孩子,尤其是对学龄儿童。对学龄前的儿童应让其少知道家中的秘密,因为他(她)很快就会告诉别 Everyone has their own secrets. A family also has its secrets, such as life secrets and economic secrets. However, the secrets of the family are generally confined to adults only. Children do not know, especially Chinese children. This is not fair, at least children should also understand some of the secrets at home, so that children will feel happy because they are completely become a member of the family. So, how to tell the secret of your child’s home? First of all, to trust children, especially for school-age children. Pre-school children should be less likely to know the secrets at home because he or she will soon tell