我做事总差一点点。记得小时候学芭蕾,老师让我给全班人做示范,她说:“你不是做得最好的,但你是最努力的。”可是,我努力就是想做好啊。我希望自己能把一件事做得出色,把一件事做到极致。与做得最好的人之间的这一点差距压制着我。这些差距的产生又好像不是因为智商或者努力不够。该怎么破解这一怪圈?我是不是太在意结果了?怎么偏偏就得不到与努力成正比的结果呢?(卜婉眉) I always do things a little bit worse. I remember when I was young and learned ballet. The teacher asked me to give demonstrations to the whole class. She said: “You are not the best, but you are the hardest one.” However, I tried my best to do well. I hope I can do one thing well, one thing to the extreme. This gap with the best people stirs me. It seems that these gaps are not caused by IQ or hard work. How to crack this cycle? I was not too concerned about the results? How can not happen to be proportional to the results and effort? (Bu Wan Mei)