随着年龄的增长,我愈来愈感觉到,对待生命、对待死亡的态度,往往可以折射出这个人的一生。要证实我这一感觉,事例可谓无穷无尽,譬如说画家黄永玉先生曾经在书中情不自禁的说出了自己最后的一个愿望,即他特别想看到自己的葬礼,听听人们在葬礼上怎么评说自己。笔者相信,他在写这些话时,绝对没有李敖式的幽默,有的只是中国传统文化所具有的、极典型的那种对死亡的认真态度。有时我在想,或 As I grow older, I feel more and more that the attitude toward life and towards death often reflects the person’s life. To prove my feeling, there are endless examples. For example, artist Huang Yongyu once expressed his last wish in his book that he especially wanted to see his funeral and hear people comment on the funeral Myself. The author believes he has absolutely no Li Ao style of humor when writing these words, but only the very typical attitude toward death that Chinese traditional culture possesses. Sometimes I’m thinking, or