小莹,一个来自家庭条件非常困难的文静女孩。父亲患有语言残疾,下岗在家。母亲是个外来媳妇,靠做家政打零工来维持家庭。家中还有个患老年痴呆症的爷爷需要照料。小莹虽然很内向,但是对语文很喜欢,语文课上也还算能积极发言。可是,在学习听话说话《夸妈妈》一课时,小莹出乎意料地沉默了整整一节课。课后,当我好奇地询问她是否有事时,她始终低着头,直到周围没人时,才告诉我她觉得妈妈没什么值得夸的。这天晚上在和她妈妈的电话里,听着她母亲无奈地告诉我,自己对孩子如何尽可能地满足和给予,然而孩子却总是抱怨。甚至不愿意让小朋友来家里玩,不愿意在小朋友面前介绍自己的父母。我想:小莹虽然聪明,但是她却有着极其严重的自卑,更重要的是她如果连自己的父母都不尊重,将来的她会如 Xiaoying, a quiet girl from very difficult family conditions. Father suffering from language disabilities, laid-off at home. Mother is a foreign daughter-in-law who works as a home-based worker to maintain her family. There is also a grandfather who needs Alzheimer's disease at home. Although Xiao-Ying Xiao is introverted, but very like the language, Chinese class is still able to speak aggressively. However, Xiao-Ying unexpectedly silenced a whole class while learning how to listen and talk “Praising Mother”. After class, when I was curious to ask her if something was going on, she kept her head bowed until she was told she did not think her mother worth anything until nobody was around. That night on the phone with her mom, listening to her mother reluctantly told me how I met and gave my child as much as I could, yet the child always complained. Do not even want to let children come to play at home, do not want to introduce their parents in front of children. I think: Xiao-ying though clever, but she has a very serious inferiority complex, more importantly, if she even his parents do not respect her in the future will be like