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如何与子女进行积极、有效的沟通,可以说是父母 们最重要的一项“基本功”了。父母与子女的沟通,是 一种双向的情感和信息交流。孩子只有在这种平等交流 中,才会打开自己的心灵窗户,才会感受到自己是真正 被父母所理解的,才能在心理上得到应有的满足和积极 发展,才能焕发出主动向上的精神。 美国心理学家柏顿·怀特指出:父母的教养态度,对 培养健康、自信、有创造力的孩子关系重大。在孩子身 上投资多少时间与金钱,送孩子上什么样的学校,以及 为人父母具有怎样的学历……都不是最重要的。唯有让 孩子感到被重视,并让他们了然于心,这才是关键所在。 而要让孩子能有此感受,沟通便是基础。 与孩子沟通有什么原则与方法吗?以下两个现实生活中的案例,也许会对家长有所启示。
How to communicate actively and effectively with their children is one of the most important “basic skills” of parents. Communication between parents and children is a two-way exchange of emotions and information. Only in this kind of equal exchange can children open their own windows of mind so as to feel that they are truly understood by their parents so that they can mentally get due satisfaction and positive development so as to give full play to their initiative and upward spirit . The American psychologist Burton White pointed out: The parental rearing attitude is of great importance to the cultivation of healthy, confident and creative children. How much time and money is invested in children, what kind of school to send children to, and what academic qualifications parents have ... are not the most important. Only by making children feel valued, and let them know in the heart, this is the key. And let the children have this feeling, communication is the foundation. What are the principles and methods of communication with children? The following two real-life cases, may be inspired by the parents.