她出身于仕宦之家,读书通大义,娴于词令。封建社会,父母之命,媒妁之言。1896年5月,二十一岁的她与小自己四岁的他结婚,步入了一桩包办婚姻。她才华横溢、个性张扬、心怀天下,有诗《杞人忧》为证“:幽燕烽火几时收,闻道中洋战未休。膝室空怀忧国恨,谁将巾帼易兜鍪。”相比之下,他才情不足、温顺保守、视野狭窄。慢慢地,双方的性格、兴趣、学识的差别日益凸现,以至于她对婚姻感到不满,“知 She was born in the official home, read books righteousness, Xian in words. Feudal society, the order of parents, the words of the media. In May 1896, at the age of twenty-one she married him, his four-year-old, and marched into an arranged marriage. Her talented, assertive personality, cherish the world, a poem, ”Worry“ as evidence ”: When Yan whispered close, heard in the ocean war never rest. In contrast, he lack of talent, gentle and conservative, narrow field of vision. Slowly, the difference between the two sides of the character, interest, knowledge is increasingly apparent, so that she was dissatisfied with the marriage, "know