父母希望用表扬激发孩子的自信,用批评让孩子避免办错事。表扬或批评,看似简单,但都是对孩子行为的评价。只有基于对孩子的爱和尊重,根据其年龄和特点,在恰当的时候,用恰当的语言,表扬和批评才是对孩子有帮助的。因此,表扬和批评都是一种艺术。 Parents hope to use their praise to inspire children’s self-confidence, with criticism to allow children to avoid mistakes. Praise or criticism, seemingly simple, but are the evaluation of children’s behavior. It is only helpful to children based on their love and respect for their children, their age and their characteristics, when appropriate, in the proper language, to commend and criticize them. Therefore, praise and criticism are all art.