六朝的清谈名家刘话很多,但也欣赏不说话的人,他见江权不常开口,非常欢喜:“江权不会说话,而能够不说,真叫人佩服。”不要以为“不能言而能不言”是那么容易的事,人之患,好为人师,社会上鸡毛蒜皮之事,往往引爆口舌之战,议论纷纷,说个不停,明明不大会说话,偏偏说个不停,自曝其短。可不可以不说呢,英国人讲:“如果需要你意见的话,我们会询问阁下。”人家没问,就不用开口,还有,当友人抱怨配偶子女如此这般,借出耳朵即可,不用置评。最怕爱说话的男人,滔滔不绝,讲就无敌,做就无力,多么讨厌,辩才越好,越像师爷,男儿的膝下与口角,都应有黄金。 Liu talked about a lot of famous Liu speakers, but also to appreciate the people who do not speak, he often see Jiang right, very happy: “ ”Can not speak but can not say,“ is so easy, people suffering, good teacher, social trivial things, often detonated the tongue of the war, talk about one after another, say non-stop, obviously do not speak to the General Assembly, but why not say Stop, exposing its short. Can we not say it, the British say: ”If you need your opinion, we will ask you. " People do not ask, you do not have to speak, and when friends complain about spouses children so lent your ears , Do not comment. The most afraid of talking man, gushing, speak invincible, to be weak, so annoying, the better the defense, the more like the master, the man’s knees and mouth, should have gold.