我希望年轻的你在选择对象之前,先除去心中过多的浪漫情怀,忘掉那些鸳鸯蝴蝶古典传说,别按图索骥,去寻找小说当中被过度渲染美化的形象。写这篇文章之前,我特别想告诉大家一件很重要的事情,那就是:爱情不必生死相许、不是费尽心力付出一切、不是委曲求全。爱情是一种在一起非常快乐的感觉。如果没有快乐的感觉,那不是爱情,那只是欲望和自私。爱情里究竟有没有罗密欧、朱丽叶? I hope you young before you choose the object, remove the hearts of too much romantic feelings, forget the classical legend of mandarin ducks and butterflies, do not try hard to find the novel was over-rendering and beautifying the image. Before writing this article, I especially want to tell everyone a very important thing, that is: Love does not have to live and die, is not trying to pay for everything, not overcautious. Love is a very happy feeling together. If there is no feeling of happiness, it is not love, it is only desire and selfishness. Is there Romeo or Juliet in love?