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夫妻离婚不仅造成彼此的心理创伤,而且对孩子身心健康造成的消极影响也是极其严重的。这种家庭冲击波的直接受害者是孩子。正如美国精神病医生德斯帕特(J.L.Despert)所说:“不是离婚给孩子造成种种影响,而是离婚之前的夫妻不和状态已经给孩子造成了很大的影响,离婚不过是这种不和状态的结果而已。”但夫妻正式离婚后,会使孩子难以得到完整的父爱和母爱,而这对孩子的成长乃至一生的身心健康都是极为不利的。这种不利的影响是十分广泛的,不仅会遏制其智力、性格、情绪和社会适应性的良好发展,而且也会导致精神异常和心理变态。由于夫妻离婚,孩子学习下降;由于夫妻离婚,孩子自卑、孤僻甚至心灵扭曲;由于夫妻
Divorce between husband and wife not only caused mutual trauma, but also the negative impact on children’s physical and mental health is extremely serious. The immediate victim of such family shocks is children. As JLDespert, a psychiatrist in the United States, puts it: “It is not divorce that affects children, but pre-divorce couples have a great impact on children, and divorce is nothing more than that And state of the result. ”However, the formal divorce will make it difficult for children to get a complete parental and maternal love, and this is extremely unfavorable to the growth of children and even their physical and mental health. This detrimental effect is widespread and not only curbs the good development of its intellectual, character, emotional and social adaptability but can also lead to mental disorders and psychological perversions. Because of the divorce of a couple, the child learns to drop; Because of the divorce of a couple, the child is inferiority, withdrawn even the heart distorts; Because husband and wife