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应对批评的12条经验:1.宽容一位智者,一定会采取宽容的态度应对批评。我们也许并无恶意,但是如果我们失去理智,可能就会说出伤害对方的话来。这时问问自己:“在这样的情况下,如果我理解、原谅对方,是不是一个很好的选择?”2.三思而行我有时候在受到别人批评的时候,迫不及待地就会给对方发一封电子邮件,为自己辩解。但是这些感情用事的电子邮件并不能给我们带来预期的效果,只会火上浇油。其实这时我们要做的是缓一缓行动,让
Response to criticism of the 12 experience: 1. Tolerate a wise man, will take a tolerant attitude to criticism. We may not be malicious, but if we lose our mind, we may say harm to each other. Ask yourself this time: “In such circumstances, if I understand, forgive each other, is not a good choice? ” 2. Think twice I am sometimes criticized by others, can not wait to be met Send an e-mail to each other to justify themselves. But these emotional e-mail does not give us the desired effect, only fueled. Actually, what we have to do now is to slow down and let