我们有时候只是高估了自己包容他人的能力。前段时间有人推荐给我一部名叫《完美陌生人》的电影,讲的是7个好朋友之间的故事。他们时常相约一起吃顿晚饭,聊聊彼此的近况。有一晚,他们谈话正酣,突然其中一位提议,每个人都把手机放在桌子上,其间有任何短信电话邮件,都要将内容公之于众。为了证明自己心中没有鬼,即使有些人不愿意玩这个游戏,最后 Sometimes we just overestimate our ability to tolerate others. Some time ago someone recommended to me a movie called “Perfect Stranger”, is about the story of seven good friends. They often eat dinner together, talk about each other’s current situation. One night, they talked in full silence. Suddenly one of them proposed that everyone should put their cellphone on the table, and during any SMS e-mail, they should make the content public. In order to prove that there is no ghost in my heart, even if some people do not want to play this game, and finally