父母一定要明了:孩子的专注力是先天就有的,不是培养出来的。有位网友来信说,她4岁的女儿做事情总是不专注,比如她拿出过家家的玩具,玩了5分钟就跑去玩别的了,又或者她挑了一本故事书让妈妈读给她听,常常是故事还没讲完她又跑开了。这位妈妈问我是否有办法可以帮助孩子改进,让她做事更专注些。我回信告诉她:孩子专注力不够,往往是大人对孩子干涉过多造成的。无 Parents must be clear: children’s concentration is inherent, not trained. A netizen wrote that her 4-year-old daughter always did not concentrate on things. For example, she took out the toys of her family and ran for 5 minutes to play other things. Or she chose a story book Her mother read it to her, often after the story was over and she ran away. The mom asked me if I could do anything to help her improve and let her focus more on things. I reply to tell her: children are not focused enough, often caused by excessive adult intervention in children. no