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问:我女儿11个月,特别黏人。吃完饭,我都不能去洗碗,不能到别的房间取东西……总之,只要她看不见我就哭闹。我整天被她拴着,感到很累。怎么做才能让她自己呆一会儿呢? 答:请你试一试,一天三四次坐在她身边什么也不干,不收拾房间,不洗衣服,光看着她,紧紧地依偎着她,给她讲能使她高兴的事情和故事。这样做大约15分钟,使她感到不用一个劲儿地哭就能得到你的注视,慢慢地就能离开你自己呆一会儿了。在这种亲近之后,给她一些她喜欢的玩具,然后你慢慢地走出房间。玩具非常重要,可以吸引她,使她暂时忘记你。第一次让她一个人在房间里最多不要超过10分钟,你必须在她哭之前回到房间,渐渐地拉长离
Q: My daughter is very sticky for 11 months. After dinner, I can not wash dishes, can not get things to other rooms ... ... In short, as long as she could not see I was crying. I was tethered to her all day and I felt very tired. How to do to let her stay for a while? A: Please give it a try, sitting three days a day or so beside her, do not clean up the room, do not wash the clothes, looked at her lightly, clinging to her tightly Give her something and story that will make her happy. It took about 15 minutes for her to feel her gaze without crying as hard as she could and leaving slowly for a while. After this close, give her some toys she likes, and then you slowly walk out of the room. The toy is very important and can attract her and make her forget her for the time being. The first time let her alone in the room up to no more than 10 minutes, you must return to the room before she cried, gradually stretched away