影响孩子学习状态和成绩的因素是多方面的,其中,家长的精神状态和言行举止也是不可忽视的“软环境”之一。一位整天沉醉于麻将桌(娱乐)的家长,和一位专注于办公桌(工作)的家长,对孩子学习的潜移默化的影响应该是有区别的。我的一位自考学友,一直是以“书迷”的形象存于我的脑海,他的儿子在初中毕 There are many factors that affect children’s learning status and performance. Among them, the mental state and demeanor of parents are also one of the “soft environments” that can not be ignored. A parent, who indulges in mahjong tables all day, and a parent who specializes in desks (work) should have a subtle influence on their children’s learning. One of my own self-study friends, has been in my “book fans” image in my mind, his son completed in junior high school