2009年,佛山市妇联曾在全市范围内开展过一项关于中小学生恋爱情况的调查,结果显示:当前学生的平均初恋年龄为13.58岁,并且在接受调查的中小学生中,自认为有恋爱对象或者说不清两人关系的,初中生有15.4%,高中生有31.5%。[1]诸如此类的调查还有很多,结果都反映出恋爱现象在当下的初高中里是比较普遍的。 In 2009, Foshan Women’s Federation conducted a survey on primary and middle school students’ love in the city. The results showed that: the current average age of first love is 13.58 years old, and since the surveyed primary and secondary students, they think they have fallen in love with each other Or can not tell the relationship between two people, junior high school students have 15.4%, high school students 31.5%. [1] There are many such investigations, the results reflect the phenomenon of love in the present junior high school is more common.