常言道：“忍为上，和为贵。”人与人之间有时难免发生不如意之事，但只要善忍求和则不会使矛盾激化。然而，近几年有些气量狭小者却头脑一热，竟以罪恶之火渲泄私愤或报复对方，害人又害已，但愿人们从中引以为戒。失爱难控用炸药江西定南县历市镇３０岁的农民何某，１９９６ As the saying goes: “Forbearance is superior, and expensive.” Sometimes it is unavoidable that things may happen unintentionally among people, but no conflict will intensify as long as harmony and forbearance are pursued. However, in recent years, some people who have a small amount of gas have their own minds, so they have exasperated their anger or retaliated with each other’s evil fire. It is hoped that people will take precautionary measures. Love is difficult to control the use of explosives Yongning County, Jiangxi Province, 30-year-old peasant Hemou, 1996