让老年人走进心理咨询室,就性问题寻求帮助,在今日的中国还是很困难的事。然而,由于老年人更多地受传统观念的束缚,受错误的性知识的影响,我们可以想象,他们当中存在的性问题一定很多。如何才能走进这些老年人的内心世界,给他们以切实的帮助,是每个性学工作者都应该考虑的问题。对唐老先生及其太太的帮助,得于一个偶然的机会。唐老先生的女儿唐小姐是我的朋友。一天,唐小姐来访,谈话间忽然笑了,说:“你猜我妈今天早晨对我说什么了?”我自然猜不到。唐小姐说:“我妈说,‘你爸已经半年多没和我做那事了,他是不是不爱我了?我虽然老了,但还 Getting older people into counseling rooms and seeking help on sexual issues is still a difficult undertaking in China today. However, because older people are more constrained by traditional ideas and influenced by wrong sexual knowledge, we can imagine that there must be many sexual problems among them. How to get into the inner world of these elderly people and give them practical help is a question that every sex worker should consider. The help of Mr. Tang Lao and his wife came as a chance. Mr. Tang’s daughter Miss Tang is my friend. One day, Miss Tang came to visit and suddenly laughed and said: ”Do you guess what my mother said to me this morning?“ ”I can not guess it. Miss Tang said: "My mom said, ’Your dad has not done that for more than six months and I did that. Did he not love me? Although I am old,