父母可以给孩子生命,却不能给孩子人生。孩子的人生,连同他们的成就和幸福都是由孩子自己去创造的。19世纪,在丹麦一个出身于鞋匠家庭的穷孩子,在父亲去世不久,家人便为他的前途着急,并作了安排。奶奶主张他去当文书;妈妈主张他去学裁缝或木匠;继父让他自己去选择;孩子则坚决表 Parents can give children life, but can not give children life. Children’s life, together with their achievements and happiness are created by the children themselves. In the 19th century, a poor child born in Denmark as a shoemaker’s family, shortly after his father’s death, was anxious about his future and made arrangements. Grandmother advocates him to be an instrument; mother advocates him to study tailor or carpenter; stepfather let him choose; children are determined