美国总统林肯曾经说过“:每个人都希望受到赞美”。心理学家威廉·詹姆士也说过“:人性最深切的渴望就是获得他人的赞赏,这是人类之所以有别于动物的地方。”现在初中一年级学生一般十二三岁,这一年龄段的学生正处在身心快速发展的关键时期,如果家长和教师及时正确地引导,适时地给予赞赏肯定他们的进步,那么他们就会朝着健全的方向发展。否则他们就有可能安于现状或者破罐子破摔了。 U.S. President Lincoln once said: “Everyone wants to be praised.” The psychologist William James also said: “The deepest human desire is to gain the appreciation of others, which is why human beings are different from animals.” Now that the first-year middle school students are twelve or thirteen years old, Students in this age group are in a critical period of rapid physical and mental development. If parents and teachers timely and properly guide and appreciate their progress in a timely manner, they will move in a healthy direction. Otherwise, they may settle in the status quo or break the jar broke.