我和老伴结婚多年,我们俩的感情一直不错。可是最近,我老伴却提出要和我离婚或分开过。事情的起因是这样的:今年元旦,女儿、女婿带着孩子回家过节,因为在教育孩子的方式上有差异,我和他们发生了争执。争吵时,我没能控制住自己的情绪,说了不少过火的话,结果,一家人过了一个很不愉快的节。他们离开后,我老 My husband and I have been married for many years and the feelings of both of us have been good. Recently, however, my wife has proposed to divorce me or separated from me. The cause of the incident is this: New Year’s Day this year, my daughter and son-in-law took the children home for the holidays because of differences in the way we educate our children and I had a dispute with them. When I was arguing, I was unable to control my emotions, said a lot too much, as a result, the family had a very unpleasant festival. After they left, I was old