过分的羞怯会给人留下缺乏自信的感觉,其结果必然影响自己才能的正常发挥,甚至影响自己的成长进步。羞怯心理严重的人,怯于言语交流,无法通过语言来表达自己的长处、展示自己的实力,而且还容易产生抑郁、忧虑与孤僻的性格。因此,这是一种应当下功夫克服的心理障碍。一、羞怯心理的成因1.自卑性羞怯。自卑是一种不健全的人格,它主要表现为过低估计自己的能力,过分注意自己的缺点,常以自己的短处与他人的长处相比。比较的结果,往往使自己的注意力集中在自己的短处上,看不到自己的优势,导致心灰意冷,自认“低人一等”。越自卑,自尊心越强,就越难发挥自己的正常水平,就越容易在战友心目中形成不良形象,反过来更加加深自己的自卑感。 Excessive shyness can leave a feeling of lack of self-confidence, the result will inevitably affect their normal ability to play, or even affect their own growth and progress. People who are so shy and mentally afraid of verbal communication can not express their own strengths through words and show their own strength, but they are also prone to depression, anxiety and withdrawn personalities. Therefore, this is a psychological obstacle that should be overcome by effort. First, the causes of shyness 1 inferiority complex shyness. Inferiority is an unspeakable personality that manifests itself by underestimating one’s ability, over-paying attention to one’s own shortcomings, and often comparing one’s weaknesses to those of others. Compare the results, often make their own focus on their own shortcomings, can not see their own advantages, resulting in frustrated, consider themselves “inferior”. The more inferior, self-esteem, the stronger the more difficult to play their normal level, the more likely to form a bad image in the eyes of his comrades, in turn, deepen their sense of inferiority.