编辑同志:去年,我原打算参加刊授党校学习,但当时我正在谈恋爱,因此未能如愿。今年,我已与男友确立了恋爱关系,并打算实现我的愿望,参加刊授党校学习。可男友不同意,还说这一两年我们得筹备婚事,忙忙道道的,肯定你学不好,倒不如等我们结了婚,有了家,你再学不迟。难道学习同恋爱、结婚就不能同时兼得吗?编辑同志,你能帮我 Editorial Comrade: Last year, I originally planned to attend the party school study, but at that time I was falling in love and therefore failed to do so. This year, I have established a love affair with my boyfriend and I intend to fulfill my aspiration to attend the party school. Can boyfriend do not agree, but also said that this year or two we have to prepare for marriage, busy road, sure you study well, it would be better if we get married, have a home, you do not learn later. Do not learn the same love, marriage can not have both? Edit comrades, you can help me