你一定听过这样的说法:“你看到的就是你得到的”。我爷爷常常说:“如果你一直盯着一棵树看,树都会走路。”我们看在眼里的就是我们想要看的东西。心理学家告诉我们,比任何东西更能控制我们人生的是我们的自我意象。我们像在镜子里看到的自己一样地活着。自己是自我感觉的自己。如果你不认为自己会成功,那你就不会成功。你看不到也就达不到。你的人生是受你的抱负限制的。如果你想改变你的人生,你就必须改变你的人生理想。 You must have heard this statement: “What you see is what you get.” My grandfather often said: “If you look at a tree all the time, the tree will walk.” What we see in our eyes is what we want to see. Psychologists tell us that being able to control our lives better than anything is our self-image. We live as we see ourselves in the mirror. You are yourself. If you don’t think you will succeed, you will not succeed. You can’t reach it if you don’t see it. Your life is limited by your ambitions. If you want to change your life, you must change your life ideals.