认识李美皆本人,远远早于她的文章。第一次清晰的记忆,是在南京板桥那所著名的军中大学,在那里执教的李美皆尽管一身戎装,仍然一路迤逦,文人的悠然与不拘一览无遗。在那里,我偶尔听说,她曾经把十个月大的儿子寄养到附近的阿姨家里,直至上幼儿园,一天当中,夫妇俩只在傍晚时分散步到阿姨家探视一次,就这样,她工作、写作两不误地轻松度过了一般人焦头烂额的育儿期。那次我 Knowing both Lee and Lee are far behind her. The first clear memory was at Nanjing Military University, the famous military school in Banbridge, where Li Mei, coached by the military, was still wandering despite the uniforms and the ease and discretion of the literati. There I occasionally heard that she once fostered her ten-month-old son to a nearby aunt’s house until kindergarten. During the day, the couple walked to their aunt’s home only in the evening, so she worked, Wrong writing to easily spend most of the most child-bearing child-care period. That time me