我们没必要对孩子说句话都小心翼翼,父母越卑微孩子越脆弱,我们不希望孩子成为经不起挫折的玻璃人,就应该对孩子的行为进行适当要求,并对结果进行恰当反应。“理性、严格、民主、耐心和关爱”是息息相关、不可分割的教育链条,家长作为教育主体断不可厚此薄彼。最近这几年家庭教育指导的越来越细化,连父母说话的声音大小、语调尖锐、措辞犀利都被严禁,父母从60后的 We do not need to be cautious about children. The weaker the parents are, the more fragile their children are. We do not want children to be able to withstand the frustrations of glass people. We should make appropriate demands on children’s behavior and make appropriate responses to the results. “Rationality, strictness, democracy, patience and care ” is a closely related and indivisible educational chain. Parents as the main body of education should not be treated the same way. In recent years, more and more detailed guidance on family education, even the voice of parents to speak the size of sharp, sharp wording are prohibited, parents from 60