我不反对官兵去相亲,因为相亲就是一扇门而已。在传统观念中,相亲讲究父母之命、媒妁之言,讲究生展八字、门当户对,在这种观念的“绑架”下,传统相亲=婚姻。于是乎,爱情和婚姻的悲剧也就不可避免地发生了——贾宝玉娶了薛宝钗,最终郁郁寡欢留憾终:潘金莲嫁给了武大郎,最终红杏出墙背骂名。在现代自由恋爱观念影响之下,相亲已然改头换面,无论内容还是形式,传统相亲都不可与之相提并论。现代相亲则是一个男女双方自由交往、交流的平台,现代相亲可以父母介绍、同 I do not oppose the officers and men to blind date, because blind date is just a door. In the traditional concept, the blind date pays attention to the life of the parents, the words of the media, the study of the character, and the correct matchmaking. Under this concept of “abduction”, the traditional blind date = marriage. Ever since, the tragedy of love and marriage will inevitably happen - Jia Baoyu married Xue Baochai, the final unhappy regret eventually: Pan Jinlian marry Wu Dalang, the final apologized wall abusive. Under the influence of the concept of modern free love, blind date has been changed, regardless of content or form, the traditional blind date can not be compared with it. Modern blind date is a free exchange between men and women, the exchange platform, modern blind date can parents introduce, with